Archive for ‘Feathering the Nest’

December 13, 2011

A Country Christmas

There is just something special about the Christmas season!

  There is also something so busy about it!

We try and fill the 31 days of December with all things festive – baking, decorating, entertaining, shopping, concerts, school and church musicals, parties, correspondence, wrapping, connecting, and the list goes on – all in 31 days!

Add on top of all of the above – our busy work schedules – with the pressures as great in this day and age as they ever have been!  How to balance it all and still come out of this month with the joy that this time of year is meant to celebrate!

 I love this season – it is a beautiful time of year with the gorgeous lights, and greens, and the excitement of getting together and eating great food and laughing with family and friends.  I would not change it for the world!

Maybe this is why I love the country Christmas theme so much – in my mind I see Christmas as a time of year where we can slow down, and enjoy the simple things in life – like family, friends, music, good food and the beauty of nature.  I suppose so much of this is in my imagination – to create this open door, candle lit, snow covered picture requires planning, and lots of hustle and bustle and work!

How do we balance all of these expectations in 31 days?  The age old question that many people are asking I am sure.  Maybe there is no answer other than to realize that Christmas is about creating memories – and there is no simple way around that.  It requires planning and shopping, and decorating and it is tiring!

But at the end of the day – what better way to be rewarded than to see the joy on children’s faces on Christmas morning, or the laughter that spills out from the turkey laden dining table, or the comfort that family and friends feel when they nestle into a cozy living room with a twinkling tree, glowing candles, and drink hot apple cider and nibble on the home baked goods that you thought you would never get baked.

Christmas memories are forever – and there is no season that perhaps requires as much work as Christmas – but it is a magical time of year that brings great joy to so many – even if they have no idea how much work is required to create a laid back and relaxed country Christmas!

I find my joy in creating joy for others – creating memories – in seeing the beauty of the season in the faces of those who appreciate the creativity required to make these memories special!  It is worth all of the hustle and bustle and work!

After all, anything of great worth and beauty was not created without work – think of the great music and art compositions that we enjoy – or the books that are written that take our  souls to another place – all enjoyed with little effort – but  created with great effort!  Creating a Christmas celebration can be a work of art – a memory that touches the very core of who we are as families, and as communities of friends.

If you put the work into the creation you will be rewarded – the beauty of creating the memories and the traditions that touch the heart and soul of who we are is worth every effort!

I realize that as I write this post that this time of year is difficult for many people- those who have no families, those who have no home – those who are suffering in different ways emotionally, and physically.  This can be a lonely and desolate time of year – especially with so much emphasis on belonging.  I am reminded that the very one whose birthday we celebrate came in poverty – with no pomp or circumstance.  And I am reminded that we are called to care for those who are hurting, to feed those who are hungry and to give of ourselves in love.  I am reminded that we must open our hearts and our homes and give of ourselves and our resources to care for the weak and the poor.  May this work of art – this tradition that we create each year – may its beauty reach those who need it most – and may the love and joy that we have in our hearts overflow to others – not just in our families – or our communities – but those in our cities, our countries and all over the world.

This comes at the end of this post not to be a P.S. – but to be the final word  - the benediction so to speak to all of our Christmas thoughts – our Christmas plans.  May our hearts be open to sharing our wealth – our love – and our joy!

November 20, 2011

Christmas Dreamin…

It is hard to believe it is time to start thinking about Christmas!  How can it possible be that another year is here – bring it on – let’s deck the halls, string the lights and hang the ornament – bring on the Christmas spirit!  Do I sound a bit enthusiastic?  Well – I know it is a lot of work – but there is just something magical about this time of year – the twinkling lights, the bows and ribbons, and the excitement that goes along with it all!

For the past couple of years I have been so busy with work and other life responsibility that I have not been able to give the Christmas decorating the whole hearted focus that I love to give it.  This year  - it’s going to get my attention – because here is the deal – decorating is a creative process – and as I have been saying – creativity needs to be feed – needs to be nourished!  Creatiivity is the air I breathe – it brings life to my spirit – it brings joy  - great joy!

So here is to a feast of creativity – bring on the inspiration!

Where to start?  I like to start outside first – and work my way inside.  I need some inspiration – and here is just a little bit to get the creative juices flowing.

Nothing like the red and green theme to keep tradition alive!

I’m dreaming of Christmas!

September 2, 2011

Good Bones

This week my niece Laura and her husband Eric closed on their new home.  New to them that is.  The home is actually several years old – and has been owned by two other families previously.  The most recent owners  - an older couple with a grown family lived there for 40 years.  The grown children were selling the home following the passing of both parents this  past year.

Having been through this with my own parents I know just how tough it is to sell the family home – even if in our case one parent is still with us but no longer able to live in the house.  And although for us it was the family home – it was not our growing up home – I never lived in this home.  But still – there were many family celebrations there – many Christmas dinners, and Thanksgiving dinners and birthdays – and it contained all of the “home” furniture and fixins that make a family house a home. In our case there were many family homes – as we moved more than once when we were children- but each home became the family home so easily – because home is where you nest – where you build your life – and this can be done almost anywhere.  All it takes is a bit of nesting attitude and a few familiar things.

For Laura and Eric their new home has great bones – it has a great structure and a good layout – beautiful original hardwood floors, spacious rooms and the potential for updates and upgrades that will make this a great family home for years to come if they wish to make it so.  It is amazing what a bit of paint, a bit of carpet, and new wood trim will do to spruce this place up and not only clean it up but give it their own specific style.  And so before they move in at the end of this month there will be much cleaning, and painting and fixin up.

And so over we went yesterday with our diet coke, pizza, jube jubes and peanut M&M’s and had a fixin up party.  Wood trim was pulled off in preparation for new trim, wallpaper was stripped and walls cleaned and prepped for painting.  Even grandpa worked with Laura removing light switch plates and pulling down old wall paper – just like the good ole days when he and Laura would have many work parties at his place where Laura learned all the tricks to doing these kinds of tasks with perfection.

Laura and Eric were surprised with a beautiful bouquet of flowers left from the previous owners  with a card that blessed them and wished them as many happy memories in this home as they had in the previous 40 years.   What a wonderful way to pass a home on to new owners and new traditions!

It was a great day – a day to celebrate new beginnings.  This house has good bones – all that is necessary to make this house a nest – a special home for Laura and Eric.

 It was a beautiful day!

August 27, 2011

Country Garden

Have I mentioned how much I like my new back yard patio?  Its like being in an oasis – and I am so thankful for this gift in my life.  Morning coffee has never tasted better than when sitting listening to the water bubbling over the rocks and hearing the birds chirping and waking up.

I have to say I love walking around and pulling out the weeds – making sure that they don’t take over the garden beds.  Watching the buds come in  on the hydrangea and coming to full bloom gives great joy.  I love the garden!

The next step is to invest in some outdoor furniture – and more than likely that can wait until next year.  I like to sit in a room and see what it needs before making any decisions – to feel what would be best there – to sense how the room will function and what kinds of pieces will not only function well – but give it a special aura of “home” – and of course a personal touch of style.

And so I will wait probably until next year – just continuing to use my two plastic adirondack chairs for now.  As I sit and drink my coffee or read  or just enjoy the sunshine I will dream about what it might need.  Should I get 4 chairs to put in a circle – an umbrella – long lounge chairs so that I can stretch out  - should I have a table with chairs surrounding so that I can host dinner parties – should I have some of the above or all of the above?  Questions I don’t have the answers to yet – I need time to “feel” it.  That is part of the fun of the whole experience as well!

This garden patio from the blog ” A Country Farmhouse” is just beautiful.  The country table was built and stained a light grey blue colour.  It is  lovely.  I love the idea of an unconventional outdoor table.  I would like to have something similar however, I’m not sure I could easily move and store it in the winter.  These are the functional issues I would have to consider when making a decision regarding a table.

The wicker chairs are wonderful, inexpensive and stackable  Very functional!

Please visit the blog “A Country Farmhouse”. (link on the sidebar)  You will just love the beautiful farm house in this blog!

May 21, 2011

Things I Love

I have written a couple of blog posts called “Things I Love”  - the list is long and diverse.  If you were to ask me for this list I suppose I would have to stop and think for a minute and then just let my mouth rattle off whatever comes to mind  - because you see – the things I love are not neatly put into an alphabetic ordered list – or even something that I can say yes these are the top.  Although saying that,I do have a list of important things I love that would include the love I have for my God, my family, and close connections that I have with certain people  - and I would be so pleased to talk about those because they are truly close to my heart.

The general list of things I love are things that just bring me joy – and ignite a sense of warmth in me – they are things that are beautiful – although not always perfect – but do bring a smile to my face.  Maybe it is just like the song in the “Sound of Music” that says whenever I am feeling down I simply remember my favourite things and then I don’t feel so sad.  Thats the list I am talking about – raindrops on roses and brown paper packages tied up with bows – only my list is slightly different – and it grows and changes as everyday I find new things to love.

On my list today – anything that is an animal print!

I love this coffee table bench – love the fabric – I have a special love for zebra print.  I remember the first time I saw a zebra in Africa – I was so amazed at the stripes and the definition between the white and the black – it was just so beautiful and so well created !

The bench above is from the design portfolio of Windsor Smith – who I adore .  I was in her home in California and I just love her and her work!  The bench below is from her home.

And then there are the animal skin rugs – love them!  I love them mixed with elegance and country  - as is shown in this beautiful and unique room by Darryl Carter – another very interesting and amazing designer.

And another version above – not sure who designed this room.

Look at this master bathroom – wow – love the rug!

This bathroom was designed by the author of the blog called “For the Love of a House” which I just discovered a couple of weeks ago.  I have her blog listed on the sidebar and you really should visit.

The author Joan and her husband moved from Dallas to New Hampshire three years ago and are creating the home of their dreams – and it really is amazing.  I will post more pictures of this amazing master bath shortly – but don’t you just love the rug?

Beautiful!

April 8, 2011

Things I Love …

These rooms inspire me!

You can tell what your style is by the rooms that you are drawn to – rooms that inspire you.

The following rooms I love !

House Beautiful

House Beautiful

House Beautiful

I love the creamy white with the blue – so fresh and beach like.  And I love the look of comfort and country -

not too formal -

but still really beautiful to look at.

House Beautiful

House Beautiful

House Beautiful

Pink and brown – I love it!

House Beautiful

House Beautiful

April 2, 2011

Mellow Yellow

Yellow is a colour that is just like sunshine!

I have a lot of yellow on the walls in my house – with most of my first floor painted or wall papered in yellow!  Let the sunshine in!

My front hall has striped wall paper that my dad helped me put up a – we have done a lot of painting and papering in past days!

White daisies and yellow – beautiful

The bathroom pictured below is fantastic in yellow – white and yellow together are just so fresh! Take a close look at the wallpaper – the same used in the laundry room below as well!

 

Do you recognize this Farrow & Ball wallpaper?  I used the same paper in my power room in the apricot shade.

From entry halls…..

To furniture…..

 

Yellow can brighten up any space.

Think wallpaper….

Think paint….

Use yellow to bring in the sunlight to your life – even a small amount can make a huge impact!

And perhaps one of the most well know yellow rooms is this one……

The Obamas meet with the Crown Prince and Princess of the Netherlands in 2009 (White House - Samantha Appleton)

 

The first lady with Queen Rania of Jordan in 2009 (White House - Samantha Appleton)

 

The Yellow Oval Room in 2008 (C-SPAN)

Happy April!

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March 24, 2011

Sarah Richardson

I love Sarah Richardson and always look forward to her  shows on HGTV – Sarah 101 and Sarah’s House – right now only in Canada, but I have heard rumours that they are making their way into the US!  A couple of years ago Sarah filmed the renovation of her cottage.  I love the look and feel of it and so as we are hopeful for summer to come – (well lets be honest – we are hopeful spring will come as well) – I thought it would be inspiring to dream a bit about what it would be like to be at the cottage – and a beautiful cottage like Sarah Richardson’s cottage!

I love how she has stained the paneling a bleached tone – its beautiful – and doesn’t have the look of wood on wood on wood .  And every cosy home or cottage needs a table where people gather for food and conversation – and this one does not disappoint.  Love the fireplace – stone – all the way to the ceiling – beautiful.

I have to tell you – I met Sarah Richardson – and of course told her how much I loved her work.  She told me that she and Tommy, her side kick, were working on the cottage makeover – and when she revealed it – I felt like I had the inside scoop!  Well not really – but you know – its always fun to meet someone that you watch from afar and admire.  She was awarded the Top 40 Under 40 award in Toronto the same year that my boss James Fraser was awarded this honour and I had the privilege of being at the reception and of course forced James to introduce me.  So that is my story on Sarah Richardson. I met Brian Gluckstein once too – but that is for another blog post.  I fawned over him as well!

The rustic details – like the barn wood inset into the kitchen counter make this cottage unique and interesting!  And the candle lanterns – love it!

Four chairs in a circle – great conversation area – a great idea – what better place than in your summer cottage!

 

The living room is all windows – lots of light and great views of the lake – you can’t go wrong with that – this would be one of my favourite areas to sit and read a book !

The colours of cream and blue and green – all about bringing the outside in!

 

I’m ready to move in!   Love it – just beautiful!

 

 

 

March 20, 2011

Bathroom Thoughts

I know – not a great name for a post – but yes – I have thoughts about a facelift for my bathroom – and  I want to use wallpaper. So many choices – and there is always something interesting and new! I loved the samples from Michael Penny’s blog post (you can link to it on my blog roll – and I also posted some on my blog here as well).   I have been thinking about this for a long time – and just need to decide and do it!

I bought some wallpaper many years ago on sale for $5 a roll – can you imagine – and it is beautiful – but quite bold and bright.  Take a look at two different portions of the paper above and below.

As you can see it is very bold – but very beautiful.  I would only use it on the top half of the wall – and put bead board on the bottom half in a creamy white colour.

I also purchased a shower curtain on sale from Restoration Hardware when I was in NYC  before Christmas – an it would look great together with it.

It is a butter cream yellow colour – I love the texture of it.

It could look fabulous – but is it what I really want – and should I go ahead with it because it is inexpensive – and because I have it?

My mother decorated many a room choosing what was on sale – stretching the dollar and making what was affordable look amazing.  She really knew how to make the dollar go a long way.

But it costs time and energy to make this happen – so should I go ahead with what I have or look around and see what else might be out there that might be more current.  I guess the question is – what is current?   I think you can take something classic and make it look original and your own and that makes it current.

And then I also have a small bathroom rug – rubber backed and perfect for bathroom use  that I bought at  Costco – and yes it would work perfect as well!  Decisions – decisions.  I know if I don’t use the wallpaper on the walls in the bathroom – it will make amazing wrapping paper – it is vibrant and perfect for using with different coloured ribbons and bows.  That is how the creative mind works – always thinking – and not quick  to make decisions sometimes!  (my mom would use wallpaper for wrapping paper – and as I child I always thought this was strange – but now I completely understand it).

Stay tuned – I will make a decision soon I hope – I am sure it will be beautiful whatever direction it takes!

March 18, 2011

Love Affair With Wallpaper

I love wallpaper -even when it was not the trendy in thing I still loved wallpaper.  I know, so many vow they will never use it again – usually after hours of trying to scrape old wallpaper off in preparation for repainting.  I totally understand the frustration – however, that  will not stop me from using it.  For me that is just part of the process of project management – you take something on and do it – the love of it is in the doing – the designing – the creating  so taking the old off – as miserable as that is – is just part of seeing something old turn into something new.

I have used it in my home – in the powder room and front hall.

I am dreaming about doing something in my upstairs bathroom and wallpaper is in my thinking.  For me it just makes sense to put it in a small room – and a bathroom is just that.  I have some ideas for what I want – but have not decided as yet.  And I know – you are thinking isn’t she working on her den – and we havn’t seen that yet – and didn’t she mention her bedroom – and where is that at?  Yup – you are right – said both of those things.  And those are both a work in progress – and you will see them soon.  Just not done yet – these things take time!  It’s all part of the creative process – especially when you are doing it yourself on a bit of a budget – you develop as you go – and that is the fun of it.  But while you are working away on one project – you can let your creative mind begin to develop another one – and that is what I am doing – or at least that is how I am justifying what I am doing!

And so I am thinking wallpaper.  I have a couple of rolls of paper that I bought years ago at $5 a roll – and it could work well.

But when my friend Michael Penny blogged about wallpaper the other day I just fell in love with some of the samples.  Here is the link to his posting -michaelpennystyle.com – I hope this works – like I say – I have no idea what I am doing when it comes to this blogging and technology – so please have patience with me!  Visit his bog – it is great! (you can link to it from my blog roll)

Let me show you the papers that caught my eye – and I think they would look great in my bathroom – choices – choices!  They are all from Thibaut.

They can all be found at thibautdesign.com.

As you know – I love green apple green – and this paper would look amazing with white towels – so fresh!

I love this paper – partly because of the colour – I like my reds and pinks and apricots – and it would look amazing with everything I have going on in the colour scheme of the house – might be just a bit to formal for a bathroom – would look better in my front hall- or my powder room – will have to wait for a redo  on those rooms- although – I do love this paper – could do it in the bathroom and be just a bit different!

I love the green and cream in this paper below – and it has a modern feel – would work really well!

And the colours in this paper are perfect – the olive green and apricot rose – how could I go wrong with this!

And the pattern looks amazing when it is on the wall!  I actually do LOVE the blue and olive green as well – one of my favourite combinations – maybe I should redo the whole house using blues and greens – so beach like – ok – well maybe I will wait on that for a while – although that is why I did buy a taupe couch – so I could vary up the accent colours.  Ok – now I am on a tangent – we are talking the upstairs bathroom – and so think I will stick to greens – yellows – pinks – apricots!

Not sure which direction to go – that is part of the fun – thinking about it – and the creating!  They are all beautiful!

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